Quick Steps to Mindfulness

Learn to enjoy a moment of happiness, at any time!  Follow these simple steps to Mindfulness and see the difference it makes for you!

Our lives are not about the past or the future, but the how true life is only available to us in the here and the now, and that is the place where our minds and our bodies are the most comfortable. Like finally being home after a stressful day, safe and sound.

Mindfulness is what allows us to see and feel happiness and calmness that is in our lives. This beautiful feeling is available to us in every moment of our daily life. Normally, when we breathe, we are not aware of our breath, it is a reflex action. But if we notice that breath and feel it as it goes into our body we will touch the simple miracle of being alive.

Most people are forgetful because they are not really living their lives but rather existing. They are not completely there a great deal of the time. Our brain is caught up in our worries, our fears, our anger, and our regrets. But these things concern either the past or the future. The most peaceful place we can exist in the current moment.

Mindfulness is when we are truly here, mind and body together, right here, right now! We breathe in and out mindfully, we bring our mind back to the present moment, and we are there. When our mind is with our body, we are experiencing the present moment. Then we are able to see the joy and happiness that comes naturally.

When we are mindful regularly, it becomes powerful. Our concentration becomes powerful, and when we are fully concentrated, we are better able to achieve our goals. We are calmer and more creative. We can make better decisions. We sleep better and we are more energetic.

Exercise #1: Mindful Breathing and Walking

This exercise is simply to identify the in-breath and the out-breath.

Notice that this is an in-breath, this is an out-breath. In order to notice our in-breath as an in-breath, we must bring our mind to ourselves. When we mindful, we are thinking of something. When we breathe mindfully, we notice that our breath comes in our body and it goes back out.

The object of our mindfulness, in this exercise, is our breath. We will simply focus our attention on our breath for a few moments. Breathing in, thinking, this is my in-breath. Breathing out, thinking this is my out-breath. When we do that, the mental racing will stop. That is the miracle of mindfulness. We don’t think of the past. We don’t think of the future. We don’t think of what we are going to fix for dinner, because we are focusing our attention, our mindfulness, on our breath.

Exercise #2: Concentration

We can do the second exercise while we breathe in. Simply follow our in-breath from the beginning to the end. If our in-breath lasts three or four seconds, then your mindfulness also lasts three or four seconds. Breathing in, think to yourself, I follow my in-breath all the way through. Breathing out, I follow my out-breath all the way through. From the beginning of our in-breath to the end of our out-breath, our mind is always there, watching the miracle of our breath. At this point, mindfulness becomes uninterrupted, and the quality of your concentration is improved.

If you are breathing in, and suddenly a thought comes into your mind, “What am I going to fix for dinner?” Don’t dwell on it. Just gently bring your mind back to your breath and continue to follow it all the way through. This the way we cultivate our mindfulness and our concentration. As you continue, your breathing will naturally and automatically become deeper and your breaths will become longer. Zero effort required on our part! Our body takes control and makes it happen.

Exercise #3: Being aware of Our Body

In the first exercise, we became aware of our in-breath and our out-breath. Because we have now generated the energy of mindfulness through mindful breathing, we can now use that energy to recognize our entire body.

“Breathing in, I am aware of my body. Breathing out, I am aware of my body.” This brings your mind completely back to your body. Mind and body become one. When our mind is with our body, we are experiencing the current moment, right here, right now. We are completely alive. We are in touch with the miracle that is life and the life that is available in ourselves and around us.

Exercise #4: Releasing Tension

Now that we are able to recognize our breath and our body, we are able to release the tension in our body. When we are completely aware of our body, we might notice there is tension or discomfort in a particular area of our body. This likely comes from stress in that part of your body. It might be caused from a physical stress or it might be caused from a mental stress. All mental stress is caused by thinking of either the past or the future. The tension and pain may have been accumulating for a long period of time. After time of stress, it will take a physical toll on our body.

In a sitting, lying, or standing position, it’s always possible to release tension. As we follow through on our breathing exercises, we can then focus on a particularly tight or painful area in our body and consciously work on releasing it. Think of the muscle stretching and relaxing. For example, if your shoulders feel tight, relax them and let them fall.

That is all there is! There are many ways we can get deeper into Mindfulness, but this is a way you can bring yourself back in to a calmer and healthier existence!  Namaste!

What is Mindfulness?

Mindfulness is our ability to be aware of our own physical and emotional feelings, right here, right now. Watch a child at play and see how attentive they are. They are curious and fully engaged in the what they are doing. As we grow older, our tendency is to compare what we are experiencing to our experiences in the past or to plan how this experience will be useful to us in the future.

As adults, we miss so much in the current moment while we are looking to the past or the future. We are constantly driven by our ‘to do list’ and hindered by experiences of the past. Is it really possible to get a break from all of this?

“When you are present in this moment, you break the continuity of your story, of past and future.
Then true intelligence arises, and also love.”
                                                                            –     Eckhart Tolle

How do we learn to be mindful?

Mindfulness is about practicing staying present and noticing what arises moment by moment.

Meditation is one way we can find a quietening of the mind. With practice, we can learn ‘pauses’ and ‘awareness’ prompts in our daily routines. Mindfulness is really just being aware of what we are doing while we are doing it. Aware of out it feels, mentally and physically, and learning how to deal with any emotions these events may bring up.

Is mindfulness living in the moment?

Yes! But it is also about discovering how those “moments” make us feel. When we are mindful, we experience each moment as it unfolds, right here, right now. This awareness may present itself as kindness, curiosity, openness, acceptance, self love and letting go.

Perceiving with all of our senses (sound, sight, touch, smell and taste) takes our attention out of the regular realm of thinking and judging. We begin to recognize that there is more than our thoughts and feelings. Awareness or Mindfulness is our ability to be aware of our thoughts, feelings, sounds, how our body feels, the environment etc… without passing judgement on them.

The overwhelming evidence on Mindfulness is hard to ignore

Less stress, worry, negativity.   Better focus, work, sleep.   More health, fun and happiness

Overwhelming Mindfulness Research evidence shows that mindfulness boosts the immune system, intelligence, positive emotional states, self awareness, creativity, happiness, compassion and more…

Rather than worrying about the past or the future, when we are mindful, we live with what is happening now. As we become more skilled at managing our mindfulness, we gain resilience. This gives us the ability to effectively go thru our day rather than letting our day run us!

We begin to see things differently, as they really are, rather than how we thought they were due to our past experiences. This allows us to respond more effectively and appreciate more fully.

Why mindfulness just makes sense

With the benefits to mental and physical health, when we are present and live mindfully, we get past the ‘noise’ in our heads and begin to experience life more deeply. We begin to see the things we have been missing.

The sound of your child’s voice, the smell of rain, the colors of the leaves, the warmth of a hug, or the smile from a stranger. The miracle moments that make up our life that we have overlooked in the past.

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